Sunday, July 12, 2015

Setting the Family "Recipe" Record Straight

July 12, 2015 is National Pecan Pie Day so it seemed the appropriate time to correct a family recipe error.
Giving Credit Where Credit is Due
                Every Thanksgiving and Christmas when I was growing up, my maternal grandmother, Gladys Vivian Rainey Smith, baked pecan pies with pecans we had picked up from under our trees. Usually Grandpa, Calvin Callcayah Smith, had cracked them. Many times my sister and I were called on to “pick out” the pecan goodies to insure there were no shells. My mother had an aversion to even the slightest sliver of pecan shell in her baking.
                Grandma always used the recipe she referred to as “Daisy’s Pecan Pie Recipe.” Her older sister, Daisy Dean Rainey Rice, had given the recipe to her. People who sampled the pecan pie raved about how delicious it was. It had the perfect filling. The pie’s show-stopping, prize-winning appearance made it a favorite of many.
                When the faculty of Woodland Elementary School, where I taught third grade, elected to compile a cookbook as a fund-raiser, the pecan pie recipe seemed like an obvious choice. I copied the recipe from the recipe card below along with a further clarification since most cookbook readers would not have the baking experience that Aunt Daisy did.
The original recipe from my mother’s recipe collection written by Aunt Daisy.
Mother added this explanation: Beat eggs slightly, then mix in syrup, vanilla,
flour, and sugar. Add pecans. Pour into a pie shell. Bake at 350 degrees for
30-45 minutes.
                 How surprised I was when visiting Rosemary Goad Dilbeck, one of Aunt Daisy’s granddaughters, to learn she had given the above recipe to her grandma. Rosie said her grandma tasted a pecan pie made by Rosie and immediately asked for her recipe since she could taste the difference. Rosie said the main difference is the tablespoon of flour and her choice of syrup. Rosie used Griffins Maple Syrup, a made-in-Oklahoma product.
                When Grandma tasted her big sister’s pie, she promptly requested a copy of her recipe. Notice Aunt Daisy just entitled the recipe “Pecan Pie.” She did sign her name at the bottom but in no way claimed the recipe as her own. Aunt Daisy may have told my grandma that Rosie gave her the recipe. Let’s set the record straight. The above recipe originated with Rosie, a second cousin, who dearly loved her great-aunt, my grandma
                Grandma and Rosie made so many memories together.  One cherished memory was when Grandma and Grandpa went to Falls Creek as sponsors with the Big Bend Baptist Church with Rosie as a teenage camper. Grandma picked out Rosie to help her prepare some of the meals which Rosie loved to do. Rosie said the most delicious dessert they fixed was a blue plum cobbler. She and Grandma had to prop a 2” X 4” board against the cabin’s oven door to hold it closed during baking!
                I recall fun times of Rosie living in the Big Bend. Rosie and her children, Tim and Shella Dean aka “Sissy,” dropped by to visit periodically. Even though I was older than they were, we shared laughs and enjoyed spending time together.
Rosie’s hard work and generosity continues today. When her mother, Hazel Rice Goad Guthrie, celebrated her 100th birthday, I stayed with my father who was unable to attend while Angie, my sister, took Mother to her cousin’s milestone party. Rosemary specifically sent ample amounts of food for Dad and me. Let’s just say, she still is a great cook and much-loved cousin.
Finally, if you have the Woodland Elementary School Cookbook published in 2000, you may want to correct the pecan pie recipe attributed to Aunt Daisy. Now you know the recipe really originated with Rosemary Goad Dilbeck.
School photograph of Rosie from the collection
of Gladys Rainey Smith, my maternal grandma.

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