Sunday, April 19, 2020

Remembering the Spring of 1995


Exactly 25 years ago today, the landscape of downtown Oklahoma City was changed when its security was rocked by a truck bomb that took 168 lives, injuring over 500 people.  As with every Oklahoman living in 1995 of school age or older, my memories remain vivid of that day.
The Highs and Lows of 1995
                The Oklahoma State Men’s Basketball season of 1994-1995 thrilled the loyal following of the Cowboys and even the fair-weather fans. Under the astute tutelage of  Hall of Fame Coach Eddie Sutton, the team featured Bryant “Big Country” Reeves, the 7-foot center, and Randy Rutherford, the point guard. Both Poke stars had honed their basketball skills in small, Oklahoma towns.
                I anticipated listening to John Holcomb and Dave Hunzicker broadcast of the games during late fall evenings. The team meshed and gained momentum as they progressed into the winter months. Radio coverage allowed me to do tasks and enjoy the excitement of the Poke b-ball games, too.
                March Madness saw Oklahoma State winning four games to reach the Final Four Tournament hosted by Seattle. In their first game, UCLA, the eventual championship team of the NCAA Division I Men’s Tourney, bested the scrappy Oklahoma State Cowboys. What a ride they gave us fans! I whooped and hollered for five months from November of 1994 through April 1, 1995.
                Eighteen days later, on the third Wednesday of April, my third graders lined up orderly and walked to their P.E. class. As I rushed around to accomplish as much as possible on my planning period, Virginia Williams, a second grade teacher, whispered quietly to me of the shocking news of the bombing of the Alfred P. Murrah Federal Building in Oklahoma City.
                So many questions filled my mind surrounding a devastating event like this, but my mission of teaching third graders superseded my own worry-fueled wonderings. With just minutes until the students returned, I knew these bright third graders were old enough to understand the seriousness of a destructive happening like this but young enough to question, “If something hurts my parents, what will happen to me?”
                Having taught them “Knowledge is power,” I began the routine of providing the morning copy of the newspaper, The Oklahoman each day. The availability of the newspapers offered a springboard for helpful discussion if the students needed or wanted that.
                In a previous post written five years ago about the April 19th bombing and my students, I commented about the third graders, “They moved to a point of acceptance and understanding in a quicker manner than I did.”* Drawing compassionate cards with third grade heartfelt messages moved them from fear and worry to quiet resolution. Actions of this kind instilled the beginning of learning to reach out in sympathy to hurting hearts. I observe and hear about these students all-grown-up continuing to provide comfort to grieving people and families. 
Third Graders of 1994-1995 Who Were in Our Classroom
Front Row: Karalea Corley, Jason Dilbeck, Josh Alexander, Cassi Koch, Jackie Kennedy, William
Fosnight. Middle Row: Amber Phillips, Tyler Hillsberg, Rhonda Brandt, Travis Sawyers, Cassidi
Pease, Bernadean Gates. Back Row: Brady Goad, William Gates, Aaron Cheves, Leslie Williams,
Lauren Goad, Scott Brown. I proudly displayed this photograph on the cover of 
my teacher's manual
 as I taught the Russian teachers.  (Photograph by Blunck's)

                In May, following the bombing, I joined with others from the United States to teach educators in Russia during a short-term teaching trip that had been scheduled for about a year. As the only Oklahoman on the team, I was granted permission to wear the royal blue ribbon symbolizing the Oklahoma Standard with the designated pin depicting the flags of the United States and the relatively new Russian Federation. Whether Russian educators or fellow Americans on the team, not only was sympathy extended, but an astonishment at the uncensored reliance on the Lord openly expressed that undergirded the courage of Oklahomans throughout the months of dealing with the aftermath and sorrow.
The Official Pin of the Teaching
Team on which I served in 1995.
The royal blue ribbon faded to
purple.
                As we mark the 25th year since this unspeakable evil, I have been astounded how many mentioned God gave them the power to forgive. One woman when asked how she dealt with the loss of a precious little one replied simply, “My Lord and Savior.” Some first responders and rescue and recovery workers explained how God enabled them to do unthinkable tasks day after day.
The prayer service organized by Oklahoma’s first Lady, Cathy Keating, found its way into many of the conversations I had while on the short-term teaching trip in Russia. So many commented how surprised they were at the overwhelming support by Oklahoma citizens and the deeply spiritual nature of the event.
As we once again find ourselves in a difficult fight, this time with an unseen virus, may we turn to God who gave supernatural comfort and calm in the midst of a horrific time in our state’s history 25 years ago. Just as those citizens of yesteryear sought strength to do difficult searches and recoveries, may we look to God for stamina, strength and courage beyond ourselves to do what we need to do.
Lord,on this day of remembrance, comfort and strengthen loved ones of the those taken 25 years ago. Enable them to see how they can honor with their lives the legacy of those they miss so greatly.
Impress upon us, the citizens of this state, the need to seek Your righteousness found only in Your dear Son. May we daily live in Your power because we know that apart from You we can do nothing.
        Righteousness exalts a nation, but sin is a reproach to any people. Proverbs 14:34

Here is a link to the comforting, but powerful message by Billy Graham at the prayer service on the Sunday following the unspeakable crime against a building full of innocent people. 

*Here is the link to the post written five years ago: 


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