The cold weather of the past month unearthed memories of over 50 years ago. Frigid temperatures propel me sometimes into headaches, which I make a conscious effort to avoid at all cost. I don my below freezing uniform when the temperature dictates. It is cumbersome but warm and staves off those headaches.
Recently as I awaited the filling of the livestock water tank, Wayne “Woody” Morris came to mind. In my memory, Woody usually wore a jean jacket. His stalwart ability to withstand brutally cold weather astounded me. That fearless toughness amazed me.
Wayne Morris in his junior year as published in the RHS 1971 yearbook. |
He
was energetic and often had a comment about whatever was happening. If Debbie Hightower and I were not visiting on the long bus rides or I didn't have a good book to
devour, just listening to Woody entertained me.
I don’t remember not knowing Wayne. We attended Vacation Bible School together when I was a preschooler at the Big Bend Baptist Church. He lived just down the hill east of the church in the house where my mother had been born. His mother mesmerized me with her piano artistry from the very first time I heard her play as an extremely young child.
1960 VBS program at Big Bend Baptist Church -L to R - Bernadean Gates, Rick Rice, Wayne Morris, and Mike Mitchell. (My curl-resistant hair was permed. Can-cans were all the rage.) |
As
water continued filling the livestock tank, another memory emerged from the deep
recesses of my mind relating to Wayne’s junior year when he was assigned the reading
of Nathaniel Hawthorne’s classic, The House of the Seven Gables. Mrs.
Diane Coke, a gifted English teacher, taught all high school English classes.
One afternoon, Wayne boarded the bus for the ride home. He was perplexed. The
date rapidly approached to have the highly revered American novel completed for
his junior English class. Uncharacteristically for Wayne, he conveyed concern
about not getting credit for this English class. My cousin, Thomasine Rainey,
chimed in about the onerously descriptive nature of Hawthorne’s writing, “Why
he takes a whole page to describe a doorknob!”
My
brain began to work. I recalled my collection of Classics Illustrated, condensed
versions of classical books in comic book form.
I had acquired my collection at a younger age. Mother drove us in for piano lessons
during the summer. If she had to get a few groceries items, sometimes she allowed
Angie and me to choose a small item. My choice was always one of the many Classics
Illustrated that Leroy and Esther Brumley had in their store.
The next morning, I slipped my copy The House of the Seven Gables from my Classics Illustrated collection. On the bus, I asked Wayne quietly if this would help him with his English assigned reading. He responded with gratitude probably a little louder than I wanted since I knew Mrs. Coke wanted him to read the book not a comic book. I knew I would rather downplay the crafty aspect of my assistance to Woody with the English assignment and keep it “on the sly.”
Within days, Woody bounded onto the bus with exuberance overflowing. He had received credit for reading The House of the Seven Gables! As he handed me the comic book version of the classic assigned by Mrs. Coke, he declared with honesty and conviction, “I could kiss you!” My intense timidity made me want to crawl under the bus seat, but I was very glad I had helped him pass his junior English course.
The
stock tank was almost lip-full when a sobering, sorrowful event came into my mind. I recalled standing with many teenagers along the walls of the old Assembly of God Church
in Fairfax, Oklahoma. As a 16-year-old, along with the entire community and the
Ralston High School, we were mourning the untimely death of Wayne. Even though
I had never been shielded from death, this was different. It was someone almost
exactly two years older than me. He was only 18 years old!
After
turning off the frost-free hydrant and covering its handle and spout, I
returned to the house. Later that night I accessed the findagrave site
and soon located the memorial for Wayne at: https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/129892435/farrel-wayne-morris. I realized his family had chosen a
verse that brings comfort beyond measure. Jesus spoke these words to a grieving
sister over her brother’s death. Yet our wholehearted belief in Jesus remains as
powerful today as when He spoke these words:
Jesus
said to her, “I am the resurrection and the life. He who
believes in Me though he may die, he shall live.” John 11:25
Hi Bernadean! Thank you for a wonderful blog and a special memory! I loved this young man dearly because he was my brother!! Marcie, Jean, Kathy me (Gail) and Wayne have fond memories of the Big Bend and our special neighbors the Gates!! A beautiful blog!
ReplyDeleteGail, I am so glad the memories from the blog were meaningful and brought such good memories of Wayne to you, too. Such precious memories of your family are held in our hearts.
ReplyDeleteBernadean what beautiful story! Thank you for sharing it. Our brother, Wayne was an amazing person and we so loved him! I write this with tears in my eyes to hear how much he touches others and that they loved him too. Blessings, Marcie
ReplyDeleteMarcie, I am so thankful that you were blessed by it. Our God is the God of all comfort. Only He could bring to my mind the memories of Wayne. Yet I could never realize you girls would see how so many still love and remember him also. I know their words of love for Wayne have been used by the Lord to comfort your hearts 50 years since his death. Loving blessings to you.
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