Gladys Rainey Smith, my maternal grandmother, loved to entertain me with stories – always stories that were true. Her true experiences ranged from
comical to adventuresome to downright scary - at least to me, since I wasn't quite the daredevil she was! Many of these stories originated
during her childhood in Konawa or Seminole County.
She delighted in telling about one of the country
schools they attended while in that area. From her description, the school was designed in the
“shotgun” style – just a long narrow structure and only one door. So much for meeting
the fire marshal’s code! Grandma always chuckled as she told how the locals had
nicknamed the building the “daubers’ den.” Some gifted rural poet crafted a
little rhyme much to the dismay of the youngest pupils in the school, among
whom were her youngest sister, Emma and her younger brother, Gene. (To see
childhood photograph of Emma and Gene Rainey, click on: http://bernadeanjgates.blogspot.com/2014/02/alice-rainey-valentine-baby.html
).
This teasing rhyme flowed from the lips of older kids
provoking the little ones to tears.
The Daubers’ Den -
The hole in the end
Where the daubers go in!
As the name of the
county denotes, the Rainey family lived among the Seminole tribe that had been
forcibly removed from their homeland in Florida. Less than ten years earlier, a horrendous event occurred in that area of Indian Territory when
a crazed mob became vigilantes and burned two Seminole young men at the stake.
(To read the account from the Seminole perspective go to: http://www.seminolenation-indianterritory.org/seminole_burnings.htm
The clash between
the two cultures occurred one year before my grandma’s birth. However, her
parents were already in Indian Territory at the time of the awful happening. I can understand why Great-grandma Rainey had
such a fear and even dislike of Native Americans, even though it was unfounded.
She only learned to “like Indians” after my grandpa, Calvin Callcayah Smith,
married into the Rainey family. To read more about their relationship see: http://bernadeanjgates.blogspot.com/2014/01/hens-humming-and-having-enough.html
My grandma, as a
child, was instructed sternly by her mother to never talk or associate with
Seminole Indians. What did my defiant grandma do? Precisely the opposite!
Seminole Indians riding in their wagons, enjoying fresh watermelon in the
summer, stopped in front of the Rainey home. They called to my grandma, who at
the time was around 8-10 years old. They asked her if they could borrow some
salt for their watermelon. Grandma obliged and shared gladly. As one would
expect, she got into major trouble on three accounts – talking to the Seminole
Indians, lending them salt, and disobeying her mother!
Grandma, the
adventuresome one, recalled patrolling their homestead at night. The tension
and uneasiness with their hosts, the Seminoles, reflected the need for
vigilance. The reason for the nightly watch originated with the fence wires being
cut at night and their cattle being driven onto the land of their Seminole
neighbors. Grandma’s father was then required to pay an amount to the Seminole
neighbor for the animals encroaching on their property! Grandma related of
walking the fences of their farm, with her father holding the lantern, when
they heard the zing of the barbed wire as it was being cut! That always seemed a
little too close for comfort for me, but not for Grandma. She loved the
excitement of assisting her father in guarding their property.
Even though I am not as bold, courageous, or daring as my grandma, many times when faced with a daunting task, I pray to the Lord for wisdom and strength. In the back of my mind, I remember my ancestral DNA. As Clark Kellogg, the sports broadcaster, says about second- and third-generation athletes, "You can't run from the DNA." The memory of my predecessors' bravery, combined with my faith in His strength, serves as a springboard to success.
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